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Why challenges? Because they get you out there.

Challenges give you a reason to act and meet in real life. No pressure — just a small goal to complete, and real life takes over again.

Why it works

01

A reason to go out

Instead of "going to a bar" with no aim, you have a clear challenge: compliment someone, ask for a recommendation, buy someone a coffee. The action feels natural.

02

A playful frame

The game reduces fear of rejection. You're not "hitting on" anyone — you're completing a challenge. It loosens things up and makes interactions lighter.

03

A first step toward meeting in real life

Small challenge = small step. Once you've said hi to a stranger or given a compliment, the next real-life meetup feels easier.

04

Variety and discovery

Kindness, boldness, creativity, gratitude… Challenges cover it all. You choose what fits you and discover unexpected situations.

Create challenges of every kind

In the app you invent and customise your challenges — kindness, boldness, creativity, gratitude… Write your idea, pick the vibe, and launch challenges that feel like you.

They went for it

I did the coffee challenge!

Man taking part in a challenge

I did the compliment to a stranger!

Woman taking part in a challenge

Fifty metres backwards—people smiled when they caught on!

Man smiling outdoors by the water at sunset

A half-minute dance on the spot—I just went for it!

Woman on a city street, thoughtful portrait
Running challenge example

Run backwards for 50 metres

I ran backwards, everyone was looking!

Coffee challenge example

Buy a coffee for a stranger

The person behind was so happy.

Dance challenge example

Dance for 30 seconds in public

I danced for 30 seconds, felt free!

Creative challenge example

Draw someone and give them the sketch

He loved his portrait.

Challenge ideas by theme

Kindness challenges

1Kindness & connection

  • Give a sincere compliment to a stranger
  • Buy a coffee for the person behind you in line
  • Ask someone for the time or directions with a smile
  • High-five a stranger (and make it fun)
  • Say thank you while really looking them in the eye
  • Help someone carry a bag or hold the door
  • Ask a shopkeeper what their best discovery of the day was
  • Start a conversation with someone reading a book you're interested in
Boldness challenges

2Gentle boldness

  • Ask a stranger for a photo together (with their okay)
  • Tell someone a short joke
  • Offer a coffee to someone working on their laptop at a café
  • Play rock-paper-scissors with a stranger
  • Take a selfie with a stranger (with their okay)
  • Dance for 30 seconds in public (or hum a song)
  • Ask an open-ended question to someone in the elevator
  • Compliment someone on their style or smile
Creativity challenges

3Creative & fun

  • Draw someone (with their okay) and give them the sketch
  • Take a photo of a detail that inspires you and show it to a stranger
  • Swap a book with a stranger
  • Suggest a challenge to someone in return
  • Invent a handshake with a stranger
  • Sing or hum a song in public
  • Get someone to guess a word without speaking
  • Create a short two-person story with a stranger (one sentence each)
Discovery challenges

4Discovery & curiosity

  • Ask someone for their best restaurant / café / secret spot
  • Ask a stranger what good thing they learned this week
  • Ask someone for their tip of the day
  • Find one thing in common with a stranger in 2 minutes
  • Ask someone to show you a place they love within 2 minutes
  • Swap a recommendation (movie, series, music) with a stranger
  • Ask someone "what's your question of the day?"
Gratitude challenges

5Gratitude & attention

  • Smile sincerely at 5 strangers
  • Say thank you to 3 people while really looking at them
  • Compliment someone for a small gesture (holding the door, etc.)
  • Thank a vendor or server for their recommendation
  • Give a friendly wave to someone passing by
  • Let someone go ahead of you with a smile and "have a nice day"
  • Mentally note 3 positive things after a micro-interaction